Everyone says to do Kegels but I'm genuinely not sure if I'm doing them right. Any guidance?
Start Kegels from the first trimester (or even before pregnancy). How to do them correctly: imagine you're stopping the flow of urine mid-stream — that's the pelvic floor muscle. Contract for 5 seconds, relax for 5 seconds, repeat 10 times. Do 3 sets daily. Important: don't suck in your stomach or squeeze your glutes or thighs — only the pelvic floor should contract. If you're unsure, a pelvic floor physiotherapist can confirm your technique in one session. Well-toned pelvic floor reduces urinary leakage, supports the uterus, and aids both delivery and recovery.
I had no idea I was doing them wrong until I saw a pelvic floor physio at 20 weeks. She used biofeedback equipment to confirm I was actually contracting the right muscles. Genuinely one of the best investments of my pregnancy. After delivery I had zero incontinence issues which my sister (who didn't do Kegels) struggled with for months.
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